Friday, February 6, 2009

My regrets

. . . because our mistakes is our best teacher.

As stupid as it sounds, don't ever tell your friend that your bf just gave you a ring and you two are engaged (when you meant that as a joke). 
You never know if she/he will tell a friend, and the friend will tell him/her friend(s). 
All you know is once you get a little fatter, you'll hear a rumor about you being pregnant. (haha)

Stop your skinny daughter from consuming JAMU GEMUK no matter how she begged and cried and screamed at you. She will get really, really fat.

If you decide to hire a driver and you already have underage teenagers of your own, warn or THREAT your driver not to teach them how to drive. Your naughty teenagers will sneak out of the house after you're asleep and go clubbing.

If you accidentally found a damn gorgeous pair of shoes on sale but you can't find your size, don't buy them and think that you will only wear them occasionally. It won't happen

Don't ever say never. For example : "I'll never get married before I'm 28". 
You never know, trust me. :p

If the person you like, out of the blue asks you to hook him/her up with your bestfriend, don't pretend you're strong enough and say "yes". It's stupid. And you'll waste a lot of tears after that. 

Don't tell your kids what to do with their life. In fact, don't even mention that you wish one of them to become something that you want. Doctors, architects, whatever. 
You just don't want to waste your money to pay for expensive tuition that your kids never even attend because they don't like it.
Instead, help them to find things they're passionate about, let them build their own dreams and you'll be a happy parent. 

Don't get too close to your bf/gf's parents. If you broke up, it can cause you so many problems and you don't need that.

Don't be happy on top of someone's misery. The guilt is something you can't bear.  
If you think you deserve to be happy, at least wait until the time is 'right'. If you really deserve it, you'll get it.

Don't say i love you when you don't mean it. It's beyond cruel.

Don't break up with a person you love because you're upset, and THINK you will get back together. Guess what? You won't. You'll regret it for years and it sucks BIG time. 

. . . and after all the lesson learnt, 
                                  i'll be a better person.  

:-)


13 comments:

melur said...

Don't tell your kids what to do with their life. In fact, don't even mention that you wish one of them to become something that you want. Doctors, architects, whatever.
You just don't want to waste your money to pay for expensive tuition that your kids never even attend because they don't like it.
Instead, help them to find things they're passionate about, let them build their own dreams and you'll be a happy parent.


YEEEEEY!!!!! HIDUP CHA CHAAAAAA!!!

Fakhrur said...

apa itu JAMU GEMUK? gue cuma kenal beras kencur.. bwt nafsu makan jg kan?

Mrs. Febriajie said...

Yaaaaayyyy jugaaaaaaaaaaaa........
Hehehehehehe :))

Ada lah dulu gw pernah nekat minum tu jamu, pdhl nyokap gw udh ngelarang. Itu emg khusus buat nambah nafsu makan, minumnya dicampur pake telor mentah. I gained 15 kg in 6 months. Grrrrhhhhh......... *masih emosi ngingetnya

melur said...

*emang loe dulu sekurus itu cha sampe perlu minum jamu gemuk?*

-gak percaya-

Benx said...

tulisan yang sangat menarik.
i like it

wah jadi ingat nasehat one of my friend..
woman can fake orgasm, but man fake a relationship.
so for woman, don't tell him you are orgasm when you don't
and for man, kawinin atau putusin. don't lie, hehehe

Benazio R.P said...

lah saiki ngomonge basa englis la saya ora ngartos la kaya kiye toh?

niysa said...

If you decide to hire a driver and you already have underage teenagers of your own, warn or THREAT your driver not to teach them how to drive. Your naughty teenagers will sneak out of the house after you're asleep and go clubbing. -- haha.. been there done that..

Don't ever say never. For example : "I'll never get married before I'm 28".
You never know, trust me. :p -- bener bgt nih..

Don't get too close to your bf/gf's parents. If you broke up, it can cause you so many problems and you don't need that. -- ha! this one is SO TRUEEE..

nice post.. menyenangkan bgt bacanya bikin ngangguk2 dgn penuh smangat gini.. huhuhu.. =p

Mrs. Febriajie said...

@ melur : Yes i was that skinny. Trigger gw sampe nekat minum jamu gemuk itu krn capek dikatain tulang berjalan. Sampe pas pelantikan paskibra aja gw dapet julukan "begenk" dari senior. Hard to believe, isn't it?

@ Benx : Gw masih agak rancu deh soal fake orgasm ini. Emang cowok lebih suka liat ceweknya "datar" daripada "nikmat meskipun fake" ya? lagipula kalian ga tau ini kan. :p

@ Bena : munnya kada kawa bapandir banjar, kada usah begaya pang... :p

@ Niysa : Thank God I'm not alone. Hahahaha.. Can I link your blog? :)

melur said...

mau liaaaat dunks foto chacha waktu masih begeeenk? i demand! :D :D :D

niysa said...

boleh2.. ;) gw link juga yaaa blog lo.. huhuhu..

Indah Puspita Rani said...

Don't break up with a person you love because you're upset, and THINK you will get back together. Guess what? You won't. You'll regret it for years and it sucks BIG time.

you should tell me earlier.... maybe about 8 months ago..

khikhikhikhikhi... kok baru kebaca ya..

Mrs. Febriajie said...

Huehuehue... Kalo dikasih tau orang ngga bakal mempan ndah...masuk kuping kiri keluar kuping kanan pasti. It's great that you get to learn the lesson by yourself. Lebih kena kan jadinya ;)

Endy said...

Hm? No one commented about the shoes?

Watch this tutorial:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qf5mJ7aR2t8&feature=channel_page

and I thought I was the unfashionable one?